Infidelity-How to Catch Your Partner Cheating

Infidelity-How to Catch Your Partner Cheating

Have you had enough? Are you at the end of your rope? With the use of these informative tips, you too can catch your partner cheating. There are several different warning signs that become apparent when Infidelity is a question. These tips will help you gather rock solid evidence. As a precaution, non-professionals should only attempt Relationship Investigations surveillance.

• Suspicious cell phone behavior—Watch especially for unusual phone behavior such as hiding their phone or going into another room to answer a call.
• Smelling of another person’s perfume or cologne—Pay attention to the timing of when they do their laundry. Do you do it or do they? Is this a change from the way it used to be?
• Leaving the house at strange hours—Perhaps working late nights when they didn’t use to; or going to see some friend that you’ve never heard of.
• The history on the internet is constantly being deleted and suspicious behavior when checking email and during online chatting.
• At the beginning of an affair, the husband/wife may actually be more affectionate than usual due to guilt feelings.
• Later, after the affair has been going on awhile, he/she often starts finding fault with the wife/husband as a defensive mechanism (i.e., to justify the affair in his/her mind).
• Cheating partners often lose interest in domestic activities, such as spending time with the kids, fixing up the house, lawn care, etc.
• Cheating partners may have a change in sexuality (i.e., more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.
• The cheater’s relationship with their family will almost always change, that is, he/she will tend to become more distant, cold, or fault-finding (i.e., he/she starts to blame the family, especially the partner, for his/her behavior).
• Financial changes may become noticeable. The partner may notice unexplained credit card charges or withdrawals from the family’s checking account.

• Grooming habits change. A cheating partner may buy a new wardrobe or a lot of new clothes, or may just suddenly start to become more attentive to their personal appearance. The wife/husband may notice frequent bathing, more careful grooming, new cologne, a new exercise program, etc.
• Physical clues to the affair may start appearing, such as lipstick on shirt collars, perfume odors on shirts or jackets, secretion stains on underwear. Or the wife/husband may discover pieces of paper with notes or phone numbers, unexplained match books, receipts, condoms, etc.
• The partners driving pattern may change. The wife/husband may find the car needs gas more often than before or they may monitor the car’s odometer and find the partner is putting a lot of unexplained miles on the car.
• Keep track of the mileage on the suspected partner’s car and even monitor the time they leave for work and the time they come home.
• Keep a calendar and note the times. This should help establish a pattern.

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